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the wildest part of my youth; I never was a rake; but; on the contrary; always detested and despised that character。

A man of pleasure; though not always so scrupulous as he should be; and as one day he will wish he had been; refines at least his pleasures by taste; accompanies them with decency; and enjoys them with dignity。 Few men can be men of pleasure; every man may be a rake。  Remember that I shall know everything you say or do at Paris; as exactly as if; by the force of magic; I could follow you everywhere; like a sylph or a gnome; invisible myself。  Seneca says; very prettily; that one should ask nothing of God; but what one should be willing that men should know; nor of men; but what one should be willing that God should know。  I advise you to say and do nothing at Paris; but what you would be willing that I should know。  I hope; nay; I believe; that will be the case。  Sense; I dare say; you do not want; instruction; I am sure; you have never wanted: experience you are daily gaining: all which together must inevitably (I should think) make you both 'respectable et aimable'; the perfection of a human character。  In that case nothing shall be wanting on my part; and you shall solidly experience all the extent and tenderness of my affection for you; but dread the reverse of both! Adieu!

P。 S。  When you get to Paris; after you have been to wait on Lord Albemarle; go to see Mr。 Yorke; whom I have particular reasons for desiring that you should be well with; as I shall hereafter explain to you。  Let him know that my orders; and your own inclinations; conspired to make you desire his friendship and protection。




LETTER CXXII


MY DEAR FRIEND: I have sent you so many preparatory letters for Paris; that this; which will meet you there; shall only be a summary of them all。

You have hitherto had more liberty than anybody of your age ever had; and I must do you the justice to own; that you have made a better use of it than most people of your age would have done; but then; though you had not a jailer; you had a friend with you。  At Paris; you will not only be unconfined; but unassisted。  Your own good sense must be your only guide: I have great confidence in it; and am convinced that I shall receive just such accounts of your conduct at Paris as I could wish; for I tell you beforehand; that I shall be most minutely informed of all that you do; and almost of all that you say there。  Enjoy the pleasures of youth; you cannot do better: but refine and dignify them like a man; of parts; let them raise; and not sink; let them adorn and not vilify your character; let them; in short; be the pleasures of a gentleman; and taken with your equals at least; but rather with your superiors; and those chiefly French。

Inquire into the characters of the several Academicians; before you form a connection with any of them; and be most upon your guard against those who make the most court to you。

You cannot study much in the Academy; but you may study usefully there; if you are an economist of your time; and bestow only upon good books those quarters and halves of hours; which occur to everybody in the course of almost every day; and which; at the year's end; amount to a very considerable sum of time。  Let Greek; without fail; share some part of every day; I do not mean the Greek poets; the catches of Anacreon; or the tender complaints of Theocritus; or even the porter…like language of Homer's heroes; of whom all smatterers in Greek know a little; quote often; and talk of always; but I mean Plato; Aristoteles; Demosthenes; and Thucydides; whom none but adepts know。  It is Greek that must distinguish you in the learned world; Latin alone will not: and Greek must be sought to be retained; for it never occurs like Latin。  When you read history or other books of amusement; let every language you are master of have its turn; so that you may not only retain; but improve in everyone。  I also desire that you will converse in German and Italian; with all the Germans and the Italians with whom you converse at all。 This will be a very agreeable and flattering thing to them; and a very useful one to you。

Pray apply yourself diligently to your exercises; for though the doing them well is not supremely meritorious; the doing them ill is illiberal; vulgar; and ridiculous。

I recommend theatrical representations to you; which are excellent at Paris。  The tragedies of Corneille and Racine; and the comedies of Moliere; well attended to; are admirable lessons; both for the heart and the head。  There is not; nor ever was; any theatre comparable to the French。  If the music of the French operas does not please your Italian ear; the words of them; at least; are sense and poetry; which is much more than I can; say of any Italian opera that I ever read or heard in my life。

I send you the inclosed letter of recommendation to Marquis Matignon; which I would have you deliver to him as soon as you can; you will; I am sure; feel the good effects of his warm friendship for me and Lord Bolingbroke; who has also wrote to him upon your subject。  By that; and by the other letters which I have sent you; you will be at once so thoroughly introduced into the best French company; that you must take some pains if you will keep bad; but that is what I do not suspect you of。  You have; I am sure; too much right ambition to prefer low and disgraceful company to that of your superiors; both in rank and age。 Your character; and consequently your fortune; absolutely depends upon the company you keep; and the turn you take at Paris。  I do not in the least mean a grave turn; on the contrary; a gay; a sprightly; but; at the same time; an elegant and liberal one。

Keep carefully out of all scrapes and quarrels。  They lower a character extremely; and are particularly dangerous in France; where a man is dishonored by not resenting an affront; and utterly ruined by resenting it。  The young Frenchmen are hasty; giddy; and petulant; extremely national; and 'avantageux'。  Forbear from any national jokes or reflections; which are always improper; and commonly unjust。  The colder northern nations generally look upon France as a whistling; singing; dancing; frivolous nation; this notion is very far from being a true one; though many 'Petits maitres' by their behavior seem to justify it; but those very 'petits maltres'; when mellowed by age and experience; very often turn out very able men。  The number of great generals and statesmen; as well as excellent authors; that France has produced; is an undeniable proof; that it is not that frivolous; unthinking; empty nation that northern prejudices suppose it。  Seem to like and approve of everything at first; and I promise you that you will like and approve of many things afterward。

I expect that you will write to me constantly; once every week; which I desire may be every Thursday; and that your letters may inform me of your personal transactions: not of what you see; but of whom you see; and what you do。

Be your own monitor; now that you will have no other。  As to enunciation; I must repeat it to you again and again; that there is no one thing so necessary: all other talents; without that; are absolutely useless; except in your own closet。

It sounds ridiculously to bid you study with your dancing…master; and yet I do。  The bodily…carriage and graces are of infinite consequence to everybody; and more particularly to you。

Adieu for this time; my dear child。  Yours tenderly。




LETTER CXXIII

LONDON; November 12; O。 S。  1750

MY DEAR FRIEND: You will possibly think; that this letter turns upon strange; little; trifling objects; and you will think right; if you consider them separately; but if you take them aggregately; you will be convinced that as parts; which conspire to form that whole; called the exterior of a man of fashion; they are of importance。  I shall not dwell now upon these personal graces; that liberal air; and that engaging address; which I have so often recommended to you; but descend still lower; to your dress; cleanliness; and care of your person。

When you come to Paris; you may take care to be extremely well dressed; that is; as the fashionable people are; this does by no means consist in the fi

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