letters to his son, 1750-第14章
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engrossed by any past or future object; but instantly directed to the present one; be it what it will。 An absent man can make but few observations; and those will be disjointed and imperfect ones; as half the circumstance must necessarily escape him。 He can pursue nothing steadily; because his absences make him lose his way。 They are very disagreeable; and hardly to be tolerated in old age; but in youth they cannot be forgiven。 If you find that you have the least tendency to them; pray watch yourself very carefully; and you may prevent them now; but if you let them grow into habit; you will find it very difficult to cure them hereafter; and a worse distemper I do not know。
I heard with great satisfaction the other day; from one who has been lately at Rome; that nobody was better received in the best companies than yourself。 The same thing; I dare say; will happen to you at Paris; where they are particularly kind to all strangers; who will be civil to them; and show a desire of pleasing。 But they must be flattered a little; not only by words; but by a seeming preference given to their country; their manners; and their customs; which is but a very small price to pay for a very good reception。 Were I in Africa; I would pay it to a negro for his goodwill。 Adieu。
LETTER CXVI
LONDON; June 11; O。 S。 1750
MY DEAR FRIEND: The President Montesquieu (whom you will be acquainted with at Paris); after having laid down in his book; 'De l'Esprit des Lois'; the nature and principles of the three different kinds of government; viz; the democratical; the monarchical; and the despotic; treats of the education necessary for each respective form。 His chapter upon the education proper for the monarchical I thought worth transcribing and sending to you。 You will observe that the monarchy which he has in his eye is France:
〃In monarchies; the principal branch of education is not taught in colleges or academies。 It commences; in some measure; at our setting out in the world; for this is the school of what we call honor; that universal preceptor; which ought everywhere to be our guide。
〃Here it is that we constantly hear three rules or maxims; viz : That we should have a certain nobleness in our virtues; a kind of frankness in our morals; and a particular politeness in our behavior。
〃The virtues we are here taught; are less what we owe to others; than to ourselves; they are not so much what draws us toward society; as what distinguishes us from our fellow…citizens。
〃Here the actions of men are judged; not as virtuous; but as shining; not as just; but as great; not as reasonable; but as extraordinary。
〃When honor here meets with anything noble in our actions; it is either a judge that approves them; or a sophister by whom they are excused。
〃It allows of gallantry; when united with the idea of sensible affection; or with that of conquest; this is the reason why we never meet with so strict a purity of morals in monarchies as in republican governments。
〃It allows of cunning and craft; when joined with the notion of greatness of soul or importance of affairs; as; for instance; in politics; with whose finenesses it is far from being offended。
〃It does not forbid adulation; but when separate from the idea of a large fortune; and connected only with the sense of our mean condition。
〃With regard to morals; I have observed; that the education of monarchies ought to admit of a certain frankness and open carriage。 Truth; therefore; in conversation; is here a necessary point。 But is it for the sake of truth。 By no means。 Truth is requisite only; because a person habituated to veracity has an air of boldness and freedom。 And; indeed; a man of this stamp seems to lay a stress only on the things themselves; not on the manner in which they are received。
〃Hence it is; that in proportion as this kind of frankness is commended; that of the common people is despised; which has nothing but truth and simplicity for its object。
〃In fine; the education of monarchies requires a certain politeness of behavior。 Man; a sociable animal; is formed to please in society; and a person that would break through the rules of decency; so as to shock those he conversed with; would lose the public esteem; and become incapable of doing any good。
〃But politeness; generally speaking; does not derive its original from so pure a source。 It arises from a desire of distinguishing ourselves。 It is pride that renders us polite; we are flattered with being taken notice of for a behavior that shows we are not of a mean condition; and that we have not been bred up with those who in all ages are considered as the scum of the people。
〃Politeness; in monarchies; is naturalized at court。 One man excessively great renders everybody else little。 Hence that regard which is paid to our fellow…subjects; hence that politeness; equally pleasing to those by whom; as to those toward whom; it is practiced; because it gives people to understand that a person actually belongs; or at least deserves to belong; to the court。
〃A court air consists in quitting a real for a borrowed greatness。 The latter pleases the courtier more than the former。 It inspires him with a certain disdainful modesty; which shows itself externally; but whose pride insensibly diminishes in proportion to his distance from the source of this greatness。
〃At court we find a delicacy of taste in everything; a delicacy arising from the constant use of the superfluities of life; from the variety; and especially the satiety of pleasures; from the multiplicity and even confusion of fancies; which; if they are not agreeable; are sure of being well received。
〃These are the things which properly fall within the province of education; in order to form what we call a man of honor; a man possessed of all the qualities and virtues requisite in this kind of government。
〃Here it is that honor interferes with everything; mixing even with people's manner of thinking; and directing their very principles。
〃To this whimsical honor it is owing that the virtues are only just what it pleases; it adds rules of its own invention to everything prescribed to us; it extends or limits our duties according to its own fancy; whether they proceed from religion; politics; or morality。
〃There is nothing so strongly inculcated in monarchies; by the laws; by religion; and honor; as submission to the Prince's will; but this very honor tells us; that the Prince never ought to command a dishonorable action; because this would render us incapable of serving him。
〃Crillon refused to assassinate the Duke of Guise; but offered to fight him。 After the massacre of St。 Bartholomew; Charles IX。; having sent orders to the governors in the several provinces for the Huguenots to be murdered; Viscount Dorte; who commanded at Bayonne; wrote thus to the King: 'Sire; Among the inhabitants of this town; and your Majesty's troops; I could not find so much as one executioner; they are honest citizens and brave soldiers。 We jointly; therefore; beseech your Majesty to command our arms and lives in things that are practicable。' This great and generous soul looked upon a base action as a thing impossible。
〃There is nothing that honor more strongly recommends to the nobility; than to serve their Prince in a military capacity。 And indeed this is their favorite profession; because its dangers; its success; and even its miscarriages; are the road to grandeur。 Yet this very law; of its own making; honor chooses to explain; and in case of any affront; it requires or permits us to retire。
〃It insists also; that we should be at liberty either to seek or to reject employments; a liberty which it prefers even to an ample fortune。
〃Honor; therefore; has its supreme laws; to which education is obliged to conform。 The chief of these are; that we are permitted to set a value upon our fortune; but are absolutely forbidden to set any upon our lives。
〃The second is; that when we are raised to a post or preferment; we should never do or permit anything which may seem to imply that we look upon ourselves as inferior to the rank we hold。
〃The third is; that those things which honor forbids are more rigorously forbidd