letters to his son, 1752-第16章
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； when wishes； hopes； fears； and doubts； tumultuously agitate； please； and terrify her。 It is your first crisis： the character which you will acquire there will； more or less； be that which will abide by you for the rest of your life。 You will be tried and judged there； not as a boy； but as a man； and from that moment there is no appeal for character； it is fixed。 To form that character advantageously； you have three objects particularly to attend to： your character as a man of morality； truth； and honor； your knowledge in the objects of your destination； as a man of business； and your engaging and insinuating address； air and manners； as a courtier； the sure and only steps to favor。
Merit at courts； without favor； will do little or nothing； favor； without merit； will do a good deal； but favor and merit together will do everything。 Favor at courts depends upon so many； such trifling； such unexpected； and unforeseen events； that a good courtier must attend to every circumstance； however little； that either does； or can happen； he must have no absences； no DISTRACTIONS； he must not say； 〃I did not mind it； who would have thought it？〃 He ought both to have minded； and to have thought it。 A chamber…maid has sometimes caused revolutions in courts which have produced others in kingdoms。 Were I to make my way to favor in a court； I would neither willfully； nor by negligence； give a dog or a cat there reason to dislike me。 Two 'pies grieches'； well instructed； you know； made the fortune of De Luines with Lewis XIII。 Every step a man makes at court requires as much attention and circumspection； as those which were made formerly between hot plowshares； in the Ordeal； or fiery trials； which； in those times of ignorance and superstition； were looked upon as demonstrations of innocence or guilt。 Direct your principal battery； at Hanover； at the D of N 's： there are many very weak places in that citadel； where； with a very little skill； you cannot fail making a great impression。 Ask for his orders in everything you do； talk Austrian and Anti…gallican to him； and； as soon as you are upon a foot of talking easily to him； tell him 'en badinant'； that his skill and success in thirty or forty elections in England leave you no reason to doubt of his carrying his election for Frankfort； and that you look upon the Archduke as his Member for the Empire。 In his hours of festivity and compotation； drop that he puts you in mind of what Sir William Temple says of the Pensionary De Witt；who at that time governed half Europe；that he appeared at balls； assemblies； and public places； as if he had nothing else to do or to think of。 When he talks to you upon foreign affairs； which he will often do； say that you really cannot presume to give any opinion of your own upon those matters； looking upon yourself at present only as a postscript to the corps diplomatique； but that； if his Grace will be pleased to make you an additional volume to it； though but in duodecimo； you will do your best that he shall neither be ashamed nor repent of it。 He loves to have a favorite； and to open himself to that favorite。 He has now no such person with him； the place is vacant； and if you have dexterity you may fill it。 In one thing alone do not humor him； I mean drinking； for； as I believe； you have never yet been drunk； you do not yourself know how you can bear your wine； and what a little too much of it may make you do or say； you might possibly kick down all you had done before。
You do not love gaming； and I thank God for it； but at Hanover I would have you show； and profess a particular dislike to play； so as to decline it upon all occasions； unless where one may be wanted to make a fourth at whist or quadrille ； and then take care to declare it the result of your complaisance； not of your inclinations。 Without such precaution you may very possibly be suspected； though unjustly； of loving play； upon account of my former passion for it； and such a suspicion would do you a great deal of hurt； especially with the King； who detests gaming。 I must end this abruptly。 God bless you！
LETTER CLXXII
MY DEAR FRIEND： Versatility as a courtier may be almost decisive to you hereafter； that is； it may conduce to； or retard your preferment in your own destination。 The first reputation goes a great way； and if you fix a good one at Hanover； it will operate also to your advantage in England。 The trade of a courtier is as much a trade as that of a shoemaker； and he who applies himself the most； will work the best： the only difficulty is to distinguish （what I am sure you have sense enough to distinguish） between the right and proper qualifications and their kindred faults； for there is but a line between every perfection and its neighboring imperfection。 As； for example； you must be extremely well…bred and polite； but without the troublesome forms and stiffness of ceremony。 You must be respectful and assenting； but without being servile and abject。 You must be frank； but without indiscretion； and close； without being costive。 You must keep up dignity of character； without the least pride of birth or rank。 You must be gay within all the bounds of decency and respect； and grave without the affectation of wisdom； which does not become the age of twenty。 You must be essentially secret； without being dark and mysterious。 You must be firm； and even bold； but with great seeming modesty。
With these qualifications； which； by the way； are all in your own power； I will answer for your success； not only at Hanover； but at any court in Europe。 And I am not sorry that you begin your apprenticeship at a little one； because you must be more circumspect； and more upon your guard there； than at a great one； where every little thing is not known nor reported。
When you write to me； or to anybody else； from thence； take care that your letters contain commendations of all that you see and hear there； for they will most of them be opened and read； but； as frequent couriers will come from Hanover to England； you may sometimes write to me without reserve； and put your letters into a very little box； which you may send safely by some of them。
I must not omit mentioning to you； that at the Duke of Newcastle's table； where you will frequently dine； there is a great deal of drinking； be upon your guard against it； both upon account of your health； which would not bear it； and of the consequences of your being flustered and heated with wine： it might engage you in scrapes and frolics； which the King （who is a very sober man himself） detests。 On the other hand； you should not seem too grave and too wise to drink like the rest of the company； therefore use art： mix water with your wine； do not drink all that is in the glass； and if detected； and pressed to drink more do not cry out sobriety； but say that you have lately been out of order； that you are subject to inflammatory complaints； and that you must beg to be excused for the present。 A young fellow ought to be wiser than he should seem to be； and an old fellow ought to seem wise whether he really' be so or not。
During your stay at Hanover I would have you make two or three excursions to parts of that Electorate： the Hartz； where the silver mines are； Gottingen； for the University； Stade； for what commerce there is。 You should also go to Zell。 In short； see everything that is to be seen there； and inform yourself well of all the details of that country。 Go to Hamburg for three or four days； and know the constitution of that little Hanseatic Republic； and inform yourself well of the nature of the King of Denmark's pretensions to it。
If all things turn out right for you at Hanover； I would have you make it your head…quarters； till about a week or ten days before the King leaves it； and then go to Brunswick； which； though a little； is a very polite； pretty court。 You may stay there a fortnight or three weeks； as you like it； and from thence go to Cassel； and stay there till you go to Berlin； where I would have you be by Christmas。 At Hanover you will very easily get good letters of recommendation to Brunswick and to Cassel。 You do not want any to Berlin； however； I will send you one for Voltaire。 'A propos' of Berli
