04道德经英译本85种-第208章
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… It is not a sound or any other vibration。
… It is not divisible into parts。
… It does not change。
… It cannot be diluted or augmented。
… It has no partner or complement。
This is what Tao is:
… It is one; it is unity。
… It determines everything。
… It comes before everything。
… It is the law of everything。
The clearest; most helpful word I know how to use for Tao is How; because Tao is the principle of how everything works。
Remember that while it has no form or qualities; it is everywhere; all the time; forever。
Imagine four levels of infinity; people are infinite in a sense; the earth is infinite; the cosmos is infinite; Tao is infinite。 Although each of these four may be infinite in a way; the first three are subject to the next greater one。
People are dependent on the earth。 The earth is dependent on the cosmos。 The cosmos is dependent on Tao。
But Tao is not dependent on anything。
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The leader who is centered and grounded can work with erratic people and critical group situations without harm。
Being centered means having the ability to recover one's balance; even in the midst of action。 A centered person is not subject to passing whims or sudden excitements。
Being grounded means being down…to…earth; having gravity or weight。 I know where I stand; and I know what I stand for: that is ground。
The centered and grounded leader has stability and a sense of self。
One who is not stable can easily get carried away by the intensity of leadership and make mistakes of judgement or even become ill。
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An experienced leader does not need a packaged tour to go places safely。
A good political speech does not need to make promises or antagonize the crowd。
A good mathematician does not need a computer to solve every problem。
A secure home does not have bolts and bars and locks and alarms everywhere; yet a burglar cannot get inside。
The wise leader's ability does not rest on techniques or gimmicks or set exercises。 The method of awareness…of…process applies to all people and all situations。
The leader's personal state of consciousness creates a climate of openness。 Center and ground give the leader stability; flexibility; and endurance。
Because the leader sees clearly; the leader can shed light on others。
The group members need the leader for guidance and facilitation。 The leader needs people to work with; people to serve。 If both do not recognize the mutual need to love and respect one another; each misses the point。
They miss the creativity of the student…teacher polarity。 They do not see how things happen。
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The leader can act as a warrior or as a healer。 As a warrior; the leader acts with power and decision。 That is the Yang or masculine aspect to leadership。
Most of the times; however; the leader acts as a healer and is in an open; receptive; and nourishing state。 That is the feminine or Yin aspect of leadership。
This mixture of doing and being; of warrior and healer; is both productive and potent。
There is a third aspect of leadership: Tao。 Periodically; the leader withdraws from the group and returns to silence; returns to God。
Being; doing; being 。。。 Tao。 I withdraw in order to empty myself of what has happened; you replenish my spirit。
A brilliant warrior does not make every possible brilliant intervention。 A knowing healer takes time to nourish self as well as others。
Such simplicity and economy is a valuable lesson。 It deeply affects the group。
The leader who knows when to listen; when to act; and when to withdraw can work effectively with nearly anyone; even with other professionals; group leaders; or therapists; perhaps the most difficult and sophisticated group members。
Because the leader is clear; the work is delicate and does not violate anybody's sensibilities。
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Too much force will backfire。 Constant interventions and instigations will not make a good group。 They will spoil a group。
The best group process is delicate。 It cannot be pushed around。 It cannot be argued over or won in a fight。
The leader who tries to control the group through force does not understand group process。 Force will cost you the support of the members。
Leaders who push think that they are facilitating process; when in fact they are blocking process。
They think that they are building a good group field; when in fact they are destroying its coherence and creating factions。
They think that their constant interventions are a measure of ability; when in fact such interventions are crude and inappropriate。
They think that their leadership position gives them absolute authority; when in fact their behaviour diminishes respect。
The wise leader stays centered and grounded and uses the least force required to act effectively。 The leader avoids egocentricity and emphasizes being rather than doing。
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The leader who understands how process unfolds uses as little force as possible and runs the group without pressuring people。
When force is used; conflict and argument follow。 The group field degenerates。 The climate is hostile; neither open nor nourishing。
The wise leader runs the group without fighting to have things a certain way。 The leader's touch is light。 The leader neither defends nor attacks。
Remember that consciousness; not selfishness; is both the means of teaching and the teaching itself。
Group members will challenge the ego of one who leads egocentrically。 But one who leads selflessly and harmoniously will grow and endure。
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There are times when it seems as if one must intervene powerfully; suddenly; and even harshly。 The wise leader does this only when all else fails。
As a rule; the leader feels more wholesome when the group process if flowing freely and unfolding naturally; when delicate facilitations far outnumber harsh interventions。
Harsh interventions are a warning that the leader may be uncentered or have an emotional attachment to whatever is happening。 A special awareness is called for。
Even if harsh interventions succeed brilliantly; there is no cause for celebration。 There has been injury。 Someone's process has been violated。
Later on; the person whose process has been violated may well become less open and more defended。 There will be a deeper resistance and possibly even resentment。
Making people do what you think they ought to be do does not lead toward clarity and consciousness。 While the may do what you tell them to do at the time; they will cringe inwardly; grow confused; and plot revenge。
That is why your victory is actually a failure。
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Tao cannot be defined。 One can only say that it is the single principle responsible for every event or thing。
When the leader has regard for this principle; and for no lesser theories; the group members trust the leader。 Because the leader pays equal attention to everything that happens; there are no prejudices to divide the group into faction。 There is unity。
Because the group work is grounded in an obvious and natural righteousness; rules and regulations are not needed to make people behave。
Even though the single principle cannot be defined; it is possible to explain what is happening in a group。 We speak of gestalt formation; of polarities; of flows and blocks; of interventions that either hinder or facilitate; and so on。
But too much theoretical talk distracts the group from what is happening; from the process itself。 Talking about process is one way to block process and lower the energy of the group field。
When that happens; the wise leader returns once again to an awareness of what is happening and to the single principle that lies behind what is happening。
In the long run; focusing on this single principle is the most potent aspect of leadership。 From this unity; we learn how things happen。
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To know how other people behave takes intelligence; but to know myself takes wisdom。
To manage other people's lives takes strength; but to manage my own life takes true power。
If I am content with what I