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guilty; and not he who honestly and sincerely believes the lie。
I really know nothing more criminal; more mean; and more ridiculous than
lying。  It is the production either of malice; cowardice; or vanity;
and generally misses of its aim in every one of these views; for lies are
always detected sooner or later。  If I tell a malicious lie; in order to
affect any man's fortune or character; I may indeed injure him for some
time; but I shall be sure to be the greatest sufferer myself at last;
for as soon as ever I am detected (and detected I most certainly shall
be); I am blasted for the infamous attempt; and whatever is said
afterward; to the disadvantage of that person; however true; passes for
calumny。  If I lie; or equivocate (for it is the same thing); in order to
excuse myself for something that I have said or done; and to avoid the
danger and the shame that I apprehend from it; I discover at once my fear
as well as my falsehood; and only increase; instead of avoiding; the
danger and the shame; I show myself to be the lowest and the meanest of
mankind; and am sure to be always treated as such。  Fear; instead of
avoiding; invites danger; for concealed cowards will insult known ones。
If one has had the misfortune to be in the wrong; there is something
noble in frankly owning it; it is the only way of atoning for it; and the
only way of being forgiven。  Equivocating; evading; shuffling; in order
to remove a present danger or inconveniency; is something so mean; and
betrays so much fear; that whoever practices them always deserves to be;
and often will be kicked。  There is another sort of lies; inoffensive
enough in themselves; but wonderfully ridiculous; I mean those lies which
a mistaken vanity suggests; that defeat the very end for which they are
calculated; and terminate in the humiliation and confusion of their
author; who is sure to be detected。  These are chiefly narrative and
historical lies; all intended to do infinite honor to their author。
He is always the hero of his own romances; he has been in dangers from
which nobody but himself ever escaped; he has seen with his own eyes;
whatever other people have heard or read of: he has had more 'bonnes
fortunes' than ever he knew women; and has ridden more miles post in one
day; than ever courier went in two。  He is soon discovered; and as soon
becomes the object of universal contempt and ridicule。  Remember; then;
as long as you live; that nothing but strict truth can carry you through
the world; with either your conscience or your honor unwounded。  It is
not only your duty; but your interest; as a proof of which you may always
observe; that the greatest fools are the greatest liars。  For my own
part; I judge of every man's truth by his degree of understanding。

This letter will; I suppose; find you at Leipsig; where I expect and
require from you attention and accuracy; in both which you have hitherto
been very deficient。  Remember that I shall see you in the summer; shall
examine you most narrowly; and will never forget nor forgive those
faults; which it has been in your own power to prevent or cure; and be
assured that I have many eyes upon you at Leipsig; besides Mr。 Harte's。
Adieu!




LETTER XV

LONDON; October 2; O。 S。  1747

DEAR BOY: By your letter of the 18th past; N。 S。; I find that you are a
tolerably good landscape painter; and can present the several views of
Switzerland to the curious。  I am very glad of it; as it is a proof of
some attention; but I hope you will be as good a portrait painter; which
is a much more noble science。  By portraits; you will easily judge; that
I do not mean the outlines and the coloring of the human figure; but the
inside of the heart and mind of man。  This science requires more
attention; observation; and penetration; than the other; as indeed it is
infinitely more useful。  Search; therefore; with the greatest care; into
the characters of those whom you converse with; endeavor to discover
their predominant passions; their prevailing weaknesses; their vanities;
their follies; and their humors; with all the right and wrong; wise and
silly springs of human actions; which make such inconsistent and
whimsical beings of us rational creatures。  A moderate share of
penetration; with great attention; will infallibly make these necessary
discoveries。  This is the true knowledge of the world; and the world is
a country which nobody ever yet knew by description; one must travel
through it one's self to be acquainted with it。  The scholar; who in the
dust of his closet talks or writes of the world; knows no more of it;
than that orator did of war; who judiciously endeavored to instruct
Hannibal in it。  Courts and camps are the only places to learn the world
in。  There alone all kinds of characters resort; and human nature is seen
in all the various shapes and modes; which education; custom; and habit
give it; whereas; in all other places; one local mode generally prevails;
and producing a seeming though not a real sameness of character。  For
example; one general mode distinguishes an university; another a trading
town; a third a seaport town; and so on; whereas; at a capital; where the
Prince or the Supreme Power resides; some of all these various modes are
to be seen and seen in action too; exerting their utmost skill in pursuit
of their several objects。  Human nature is the same all over the world;
but its operations are so varied by education and habit; that one must
see it in all its dresses in order to be intimately acquainted with it。
The passion of ambition; for instance; is the same in a courtier;
 a soldier; or an ecclesiastic; but; from their different educations and
habits; they will take very different methods to gratify it。  Civility;
which is a disposition to accommodate and oblige others; is essentially
the same in every country; but good…breeding; as it is called; which is
the manner of exerting that disposition; is different in almost every
country; and merely local; and every man of sense imitates and conforms
to that local good…breeding of the place which he is at。  A conformity
and flexibility of manners is necessary in the course of the world; that
is; with regard to all things which are not wrong in themselves。  The
'versatile ingenium' is the most useful of all。  It can turn itself
instantly from one object to another; assuming the proper manner for
each。  It can be serious with the grave; cheerful with the gay; and
trifling with the frivolous。  Endeavor by all means; to acquire this
talent; for it is a very great one。

As I hardly know anything more useful; than to see; from time to time;
pictures of one's self drawn by different hands; I send you here a sketch
of yourself; drawn at Lausanne; while you were there; and sent over here
by a person who little thought that it would ever fall into my hands: and
indeed it was by the greatest accident in the world that it did。




LETTER XVI

LONDON; October 9; O。 S。  1747。

DEAR BOY: People of your age have; commonly; an unguarded frankness about
them; which makes them the easy prey and bubbles of the artful and the
experienced; they look upon every knave or fool; who tells them that he
is their friend; to be really so; and pay that profession of simulated
friendship; with an indiscreet and unbounded confidence; always to their
loss; often to their ruin。  Beware; therefore; now that you are coming
into the world; of these preferred friendships。  Receive them with great
civility; but with great incredulity too; and pay them with compliments;
but not with confidence。  Do not let your vanity and self…love make you
suppose that people become your friends at first sight; or even upon a
short acquaintance。  Real friendship is a slow grower and never thrives
unless engrafted upon a stock of known and reciprocal merit。  There is
another kind of nominal friendship among young people; which is warm for
the time; but by good luck; of short duration。  This friendship is
hastily produced; by their being accidentally thrown together; and
pursuing the course of riot and debauchery。  A fine friendship; truly;
and well cemented by drunkenness and lewdness。  It should rath

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