letters to his son, 1746-47-第6章
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through; but that you should inform yourself; as well as your stay will
permit you; whether the town is free; or to whom it belongs; or in what
manner: whether it has any peculiar privileges or customs; what trade or
manufactures; and such other particulars as people of sense desire to
know。 And there would be no manner of harm if you were to take
memorandums of such things in a paper book to help your memory。 The only
way of knowing all these things is to keep the best company; who can best
inform you of them。 I am just now called away; so good night。
LETTER XI
LONDON; July 20; O。 S。 1747
DEAR BOY: In your Mamma's letter; which goes here inclosed; you will
find one from my sister; to thank you for the Arquebusade water which you
sent her; and which she takes very kindly。 She would not show me her
letter to you; but told me that it contained good wishes and good advice;
and; as I know she will show your letter in answer to hers; I send you
here inclosed the draught of the letter which I would have you write to
her。 I hope you will not be offended at my offering you my assistance
upon this occasion; because; I presume; that as yet; you are not much
used to write to ladies。 'A propos' of letter…writing; the best models
that you can form yourself upon are; Cicero; Cardinal d'Ossat; Madame
Sevigne; and Comte Bussy Rebutin。 Cicero's Epistles to Atticus; and to
his familiar friends; are the best examples that you can imitate; in the
friendly and the familiar style。 The simplicity and the clearness of
Cardinal d'Ossat's letters show how letters of business ought to be
written; no affected turns; no attempts at wit; obscure or perplex his
matter; which is always plainly and clearly stated; as business always
should be。 For gay and amusing letters; for 'enjouement and badinage;'
there are none that equal Comte Bussy's and Madame Sevigne's。 They are
so natural; that they seem to be the extempore conversations of two
people of wit; rather; than letters which are commonly studied; though
they ought not to be so。 I would advise you to let that book be one in
your itinerant library; it will both amuse and inform you。
I have not time to add any more now; so good night。
LETTER XII
LONDON; July 30; O。 S。 1747
DEAR BOY: It is now four posts since I have received any letter; either
from you or from Mr。 Harte。 I impute this to the rapidity of your
travels through Switzerland; which I suppose are by this time finished。
You will have found by my late letters; both to you and Mr。 Harte; that
you are to be at Leipsig by next Michaelmas; where you will be lodged in
the house of Professor Mascow; and boarded in the neighborhood of it;
with some young men of fashion。 The professor will read you lectures
upon 'Grotius de Jure Belli et Pacis;' the 'Institutes of Justinian' and
the 'Jus Publicum Imperii;' which I expect that you shall not only hear;
but attend to; and retain。 I also expect that you make yourself
perfectly master of the German language; which you may very soon do
there; if you please。 I give you fair warning; that at Leipsig I shall
have an hundred invisible spies about you; and shall be exactly informed
of everything that you do; and of almost everything that you say。 I hope
that; in consequence of those minute informations; I may be able to say
of you; what Velleius Paterculus says of Scipio; that in his whole life;
'nihil non laudandum aut dixit; aut fecit; aut sensit。' There is a great
deal of good company in Leipsig; which I would have you frequent in the
evenings; when the studies of the day are over。 There is likewise a kind
of court kept there; by a Duchess Dowager of Courland; at which you
should get introduced。 The King of Poland and his Court go likewise to
the fair at Leipsig twice a year; and I shall write to Sir Charles
Williams; the king's minister there; to have you presented; and
introduced into good company。 But I must remind you; at the same time;
that it will be to a very little purpose for you to frequent good
company; if you do not conform to; and learn their manners; if you are
not attentive to please; and well bred; with the easiness of a man of
fashion。 As you must attend to your manners; so you must not neglect
your person; but take care to be very clean; well dressed; and genteel;
to have no disagreeable attitudes; nor awkward tricks; which many people
use themselves to; and then cannot leave them off。 Do you take care to
keep your teeth very clean; by washing them constantly every morning; and
after every meal? This is very necessary; both to preserve your teeth a
great while; and to save you a great deal of pain。 Mine have plagued me
long; and are now falling out; merely from want of care when I was your
age。 Do you dress well; and not too well? Do you consider your air and
manner of presenting yourself enough; and not too much? Neither
negligent nor stiff? All these things deserve a degree of care;
a second…rate attention; they give an additional lustre to real merit。
My Lord Bacon says; that a pleasing figure is a perpetual letter of
recommendation。 It is certainly an agreeable forerunner of merit; and
smoothes the way for it。
Remember that I shall see you at Hanover next summer; and shall expect
perfection; which if I do not meet with; or at least something very near
it; you and I shall; not be very well together。 I shall dissect and
analyze you with a microscope; so that I shall discover the least speck
or blemish。 This is fair warning; therefore take your measures
accordingly。 Yours。
LETTER XIII
LONDON; August 21; O。 S。 1747。
DEAR BOY: I reckon that this letter has but a bare chance of finding you
at Lausanne; but I was resolved to risk it; as it is the last that I
shall write to you till you are settled at Leipsig。 I sent you by the
last post; under cover to Mr。 Harte; a letter of recommendation to one of
the first people at Munich; which you will take care to present to him in
the politest manner; he will certainly have you presented to the
electoral family; and I hope you will go through that ceremony with great
respect; good breeding; and ease。 As this is the first court that ever
you will have been at; take care to inform yourself if there be any
particular; customs or forms to be observed; that you may not commit any
mistake。 At Vienna men always make courtesies; instead of bows; to the
emperor; in France nobody bows at all to the king; nor kisses his hand;
but in Spain and England; bows are made; and hands are kissed。 Thus
every court has some peculiarity or other; of which those who go to them
ought previously to inform themselves; to avoid blunders and
awkwardnesses。
I have not time to say any more now; than to wish you good journey to
Leipsig; and great attention; both there and in going there。 Adieu。
LETTER XIV
LONDON; September 21; O。 S。 1747
DEAR BOY: I received; by the last post; your letter of the 8th; N。 S。;
and I do not wonder that you are surprised at the credulity and
superstition of the Papists at Einsiedlen; and at their absurd stories of
their chapel。 But remember; at the same time; that errors and mistakes;
however gross; in matters of opinion; if they are sincere; are to be
pitied; but not punished nor laughed at。 The blindness of the
understanding is as much to be pitied as the blindness of the eye;
and there is neither jest nor guilt in a man's losing his way in either
case。 Charity bids us set him right if we can; by arguments and
persuasions; but charity; at the same time; forbids; either to punish or
ridicule his misfortune。 Every man's reason is; and must be; his guide;
and I may as well expect that every man should be of my size and
complexion; as that he should reason just as I do。 Every man seeks for
truth; but God only knows who has found it。 It is; therefore; as unjust
to persecute; as it is absurd to ridicule; people for those several
opinions; which they cannot help entertaining upon the conviction of
their reason。 It is the man who tells; or who acts a lie; that is
guilty; and not he who honestly and sincerely believes the lie。
I really know nothing mor