letters to his son, 1746-47-第12章
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the knowledge; the honor; and probity; which you may have; the marks and
warmth of my affection shall amply reward them; but if you have them not;
my aversion and indignation will rise in the same proportion; and; in
that case; remember; that I am under no further obligation; than to give
you the necessary means of subsisting。 If ever we quarrel; do not expect
or depend upon any weakness in my nature; for a reconciliation;
as children frequently do; and often meet with; from silly parents;
I have no such weakness about me: and; as I will never quarrel with you
but upon some essential point; if once we quarrel; I will never forgive。
But I hope and believe; that this declaration (for it is no threat) will
prove unnecessary。 You are no stranger to the principles of virtue; and;
surely; whoever knows virtue must love it。 As for knowledge; you have
already enough of it; to engage you to acquire more。 The ignorant only;
either despise it; or think that they have enough: those who have the
most are always the most desirous to have more; and know that the most
they can have is; alas! but too little。
Reconsider; from time to time; and retain the friendly advice which I
send you。 The advantage will be all your own。
LETTER XXIII
LONDON; December 29; O。 S。 1747
DEAR BOY: I have received two letters from you of the 17th and 22d; N。
S。; by the last of which I find that some of mine to you must have
miscarried; for I have never been above two posts without writing to you
or to Mr。 Harte; and even very long letters。 I have also received a
letter from Mr。 Harte; which gives me great satisfaction: it is full of
your praises; and he answers for you; that; in two years more; you will
deserve your manumission; and be fit to go into the world; upon a footing
that will do you honor; and give me pleasure。
I thank you for your offer of the new edition of 'Adamus Adami;' but I do
not want it; having a good edition of it at present。 When you have read
that; you will do well to follow it with Pere Bougeant's 'Histoire du
Traite de Munster;' in two volumes quarto; which contains many important
anecdotes concerning that famous treaty; that are not in Adamus Adami。
You tell me that your lectures upon the 'Jus Publicum' will be ended at
Easter; but then I hope that Monsieur Mascow will begin them again;
for I would not have you discontinue that study one day while you are at
Leipsig。 I suppose that Monsieur Mascow will likewise give you lectures
upon the 'Instrumentum Pacis;' and upon the capitulations of the late
emperors。 Your German will go on of course; and I take it for granted
that your stay at Leipsig will make you a perfect master of that
language; both as to speaking and writing; for remember; that knowing any
language imperfectly; is very little better than not knowing it at all:
people being as unwilling to speak in a language which they do not
possess thoroughly; as others are to hear them。 Your thoughts are
cramped; and appear to great disadvantage; in any language of which you
are not perfect master。 Let modern history share part of your time;
and that always accompanied with the maps of the places in question;
geography and history are very imperfect separately; and; to be useful;
must be joined。
Go to the Duchess of Courland's as often as she and your leisure will
permit。 The company of women of fashion will improve your manners;
though not your understanding; and that complaisance and politeness;
which are so useful in men's company; can only be acquired in women's。
Remember always; what I have told you a thousand times; that all the
talents in the world will want all their lustre; and some part of their
use too; if they are not adorned with that easy good…breeding; that
engaging manner; and those graces; which seduce and prepossess people in
your favor at first sight。 A proper care of your person is by no means
to be neglected; always extremely clean; upon proper occasions fine。
Your carriage genteel; and your motions graceful。 Take particular care
of your manner and address; when you present yourself in company。 Let
them be respectful without meanness; easy without too much familiarity;
genteel without affectation; and insinuating without any seeming art or
design。
You need not send me any more extracts of the German constitution; which;
by the course of your present studies; I know you must soon be acquainted
with; but I would now rather that your letters should be a sort of
journal of your own life。 As; for instance; what company you keep;
what new acquaintances you make; what your pleasures are; with your own
reflections upon the whole: likewise what Greek and Latin books you read
and understand。 Adieu!
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