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sometimes from a sense of duty overpowering personal sorrow。 〃If
I had not been so great an invalid;〃 said Dr。 Darwin to a friend;
〃I should not have done nearly so much work as I have been able to
accomplish。〃 So Dr。 Donne; speaking of his illnesses; once said:
〃This advantage you and my other friends have by my frequent
fevers is; that I am so much the oftener at the gates of Heaven;
and by the solitude and close imprisonment they reduce me to; I am
so much the oftener at my prayers; in which you and my other dear
friends are not forgotten。〃
Schiller produced his greatest tragedies in the midst of physical
suffering almost amounting to torture。 Handel was never greater
than when; warned by palsy of the approach of death; and
struggling with distress and suffering; he sat down to compose the
great works which have made his name immortal in music。 Mozart
composed his great operas; and last of all his 'Requiem;' when
oppressed by debt; and struggling with a fatal disease。 Beethoven
produced his greatest works amidst gloomy sorrow; when oppressed
by almost total deafness。 And poor Schubert; after his short but
brilliant life; laid it down at the early age of thirty…two;
his sole property at his death consisting of his manuscripts;
the clothes he wore; and sixty…three florins in money。 Some of
Lamb's finest writings were produced amidst deep sorrow; and
Hood's apparent gaiety often sprang from a suffering heart。
As he himself wrote;
〃There's not a string attuned to mirth;
But has its chord in melancholy。〃
Again; in science; we have the noble instance of the suffering
Wollaston; even in the last stages of the mortal disease which
afflicted him; devoting his numbered hours to putting on record;
by dictation; the various discoveries and improvements he had
made; so that any knowledge he had acquired; calculated to benefit
his fellow…creatures; might not be lost。
Afflictions often prove but blessings in disguise。 〃Fear not the
darkness;〃 said the Persian sage; it 〃conceals perhaps the springs
of the waters of life。〃 Experience is often bitter; but
wholesome; only by its teaching can we learn to suffer and be
strong。 Character; in its highest forms; is disciplined by trial;
and 〃made perfect through suffering。〃 Even from the deepest
sorrow; the patient and thoughtful mind will gather richer wisdom
than pleasure ever yielded。
〃The soul's dark cottage; batter'd and decayed;
Lets in new light through chinks that Time has made。〃
〃Consider;〃 said Jeremy Taylor; 〃that sad accidents; and a state
of afflictions; is a school of virtue。 It reduces our spirits to
soberness; and our counsels to moderation; it corrects levity; and
interrupts the confidence of sinning。。。。 God; who in mercy and
wisdom governs the world; would never have suffered so many
sadnesses; and have sent them; especially; to the most virtuous
and the wisest men; but that He intends they should be the
seminary of comfort; the nursery of virtue; the exercise of
wisdom; the trial of patience; the venturing for a crown;
and the gate of glory。〃 (16)
And again:〃No man is more miserable than he that hath no
adversity。 That man is not tried; whether he be good or bad;
and God never crowns those virtues which are only FACULTIES
and DISPOSITIONS; but every act of virtue is an ingredient
unto reward。〃 (17)
Prosperity and success of themselves do not confer happiness;
indeed; it not unfrequently happens that the least successful in
life have the greatest share of true joy in it。 No man could have
been more successful than Goethepossessed of splendid health;
honour; power; and sufficiency of this world's goodsand yet he
confessed that he had not; in the course of his life; enjoyed five
weeks of genuine pleasure。 So the Caliph Abdalrahman; in
surveying his successful reign of fifty years; found that he had
enjoyed only fourteen days of pure and genuine happiness。 (18)
After this; might it not be said that the pursuit of mere
happiness is an illusion?
Life; all sunshine without shade; all happiness without sorrow;
all pleasure without pain; were not life at allat least not
human life。 Take the lot of the happiestit is a tangled yarn。
It is made up of sorrows and joys; and the joys are all the
sweeter because of the sorrows; bereavements and blessings; one
following another; making us sad and blessed by turns。 Even death
itself makes life more loving; it binds us more closely together
while here。 Dr。 Thomas Browne has argued that death is one of the
necessary conditions of human happiness; and he supports his
argument with great force and eloquence。 But when death comes
into a household; we do not philosophisewe only feel。 The
eyes that are full of tears do not see; though in course of
time they come to see more clearly and brightly than those
that have never known sorrow。
The wise person gradually learns not to expect too much from life。
While he strives for success by worthy methods; he will be
prepared for failures; he will keep his mind open to enjoyment;
but submit patiently to suffering。 Wailings and complainings of
life are never of any use; only cheerful and continuous working
in right paths are of real avail。
Nor will the wise man expect too much from those about him。 If he
would live at peace with others; he will bear and forbear。 And
even the best have often foibles of character which have to be
endured; sympathised with; and perhaps pitied。 Who is perfect?
Who does not suffer from some thorn in the flesh? Who does not
stand in need of toleration; of forbearance; of forgiveness? What
the poor imprisoned Queen Caroline Matilda of Denmark wrote on her
chapel…window ought to be the prayer of all;〃Oh! keep me
innocent! make others great。〃
Then; how much does the disposition of every human being depend
upon their innate constitution and their early surroundings;
the comfort or discomfort of the homes in which they have been
brought up; their inherited characteristics; and the examples;
good or bad; to which they have been exposed through life!
Regard for such considerations should teach charity and
forbearance to all men。
At the same time; life will always be to a large extent what we
ourselves make it。 Each mind makes its own little world。 The
cheerful mind makes it pleasant; and the discontented mind makes
it miserable。 〃My mind to me a kingdom is;〃 applies alike to the
peasant as to the monarch。 The one may be in his heart a king; as
the other may be a slave。 Life is for the most part but the
mirror of our own individual selves。 Our mind gives to all
situations; to all fortunes; high or low; their real characters。
To the good; the world is good; to the bad; it is bad。 If our
views of life be elevatedif we regard it as a sphere of useful
effort; of high living and high thinking; of working for others'
good as well as our ownit will be joyful; hopeful; and blessed。
If; on the contrary; we regard it merely as affording
opportunities for self…seeking; pleasure; and aggrandisement; it
will be full of toil; anxiety; and disappointment。
There is much in life that; while in this state; we can never
comprehend。 There is; indeed; a great deal of mystery in life
much that we see 〃as in a glass darkly。〃 But though we may not
apprehend the full meaning of the discipline of trial through
which the best have to pass; we must have faith in the
completeness of the design of which our little individual
lives form a part。
We have each to do our duty in that sphere of life in which we
have been placed。 Duty alone is true; there is no true action but
in its accomplishment。 Duty is the end and aim of the highest
life; the truest pleasure of all is that derived from the
consciousness of its fulfilment。 Of all others; it is the one
that is most thoroughly satisfying; and the least accompanied by
regret and disappoi