character-第59章
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merely acting a part; and that for an immoral purpose。 Manner;
like other fine arts; gives pleasure; and is exceedingly agreeable
to look upon; but it may be assumed as a disguise; as men 〃assume
a virtue though they have it not。〃 It is but the exterior sign of
good conduct; but may be no more than skin…deep。 The most highly…
polished person may be thoroughly depraved in heart; and his
superfine manners may; after all; only consist in pleasing
gestures and in fine phrases。
On the other hand; it must be acknowledged that some of the
richest and most generous natures have been wanting in the graces
of courtesy and politeness。 As a rough rind sometimes covers the
sweetest fruit; so a rough exterior often conceals a kindly and
hearty nature。 The blunt man may seem even rude in manner; and
yet; at heart; be honest; kind; and gentle。
John Knox and Martin Luther were by no means distinguished for
their urbanity。 They had work to do which needed strong and
determined rather than well…mannered men。 Indeed; they were both
thought to be unnecessarily harsh and violent in their manner。
〃And who art thou;〃 said Mary Queen of Scots to Knox; 〃that
presumest to school the nobles and sovereign of this realm?〃
〃Madam;〃 replied Knox; 〃a subject born within the same。〃 It is
said that his boldness; or roughness; more than once made Queen
Mary weep。 When Regent Morton heard of this; he said; 〃Well; 'tis
better that women should weep than bearded men。〃
As Knox was retiring from the Queen's presence on one occasion; he
overheard one of the royal attendants say to another; 〃He is not
afraid!〃 Turning round upon them; he said: 〃And why should the
pleasing face of a gentleman frighten me? I have looked on the
faces of angry men; and yet have not been afraid beyond measure。〃
When the Reformer; worn…out by excess of labour and anxiety; was
at length laid to his rest; the Regent; looking down into the open
grave; exclaimed; in words which made a strong impression from
their aptness and truth〃There lies he who never feared the
face of man!〃
Luther also was thought by some to be a mere compound of violence
and ruggedness。 But; as in the case of Knox; the times in which
he lived were rude and violent; and the work he had to do could
scarcely have been accomplished with gentleness and suavity。 To
rouse Europe from its lethargy; he had to speak and to write with
force; and even vehemence。 Yet Luther's vehemence was only in
words。 His apparently rude exterior covered a warm heart。 In
private life he was gentle; loving; and affectionate。 He was
simple and homely; even to commonness。 Fond of all common
pleasures and enjoyments; he was anything but an austere man; or a
bigot; for he was hearty; genial; and even 〃jolly。〃 Luther was
the common people's hero in his lifetime; and he remains so in
Germany to this day。
Samuel Johnson was rude and often gruff in manner。 But he had
been brought up in a rough school。 Poverty in early life had made
him acquainted with strange companions。 He had wandered in the
streets with Savage for nights together; unable between them to
raise money enough to pay for a bed。 When his indomitable courage
and industry at length secured for him a footing in society; he
still bore upon him the scars of his early sorrows and struggles。
He was by nature strong and robust; and his experience made him
unaccommodating and self…asserting。 When he was once asked why he
was not invited to dine out as Garrick was; he answered; 〃Because
great lords and ladies did not like to have their mouths stopped;〃
and Johnson was a notorious mouth…stopper; though what he said was
always worth listening to。
Johnson's companions spoke of him as 〃Ursa Major;〃 but; as
Goldsmith generously said of him; 〃No man alive has a more tender
heart; he has nothing of the bear about him but his skin。〃 The
kindliness of Johnson's nature was shown on one occasion by the
manner in which he assisted a supposed lady in crossing Fleet
Street。 He gave her his arm; and led her across; not observing
that she was in liquor at the time。 But the spirit of the act was
not the less kind on that account。 On the other hand; the conduct
of the bookseller on whom Johnson once called to solicit
employment; and who; regarding his athletic but uncouth person;
told him he had better 〃go buy a porter's knot and carry trunks;〃
in howsoever bland tones the advice might have been communicated;
was simply brutal。
While captiousness of manner; and the habit of disputing and
contradicting everything said; is chilling and repulsive; the
opposite habit of assenting to; and sympathising with; every
statement made; or emotion expressed; is almost equally
disagreeable。 It is unmanly; and is felt to be dishonest。 〃It may
seem difficult;〃 says Richard Sharp; 〃to steer always between
bluntness and plain…dealing; between giving merited praise and
lavishing indiscriminate flattery; but it is very easygood…
humour; kindheartedness; and perfect simplicity; being all that
are requisite to do what is right in the right way。〃 (3)
At the same time; many are unpolitenot because they mean to be
so; but because they are awkward; and perhaps know no better。
Thus; when Gibbon had published the second and third volumes of
his 'Decline and Fall;' the Duke of Cumberland met him one day;
and accosted him with; 〃How do you do; Mr。 Gibbon? I see you
are always AT IT in the old waySCRIBBLE; SCRIBBLE; SCRIBBLE!〃
The Duke probably intended to pay the author a compliment;
but did not know how better to do it; than in this blunt and
apparently rude way。
Again; many persons are thought to be stiff; reserved; and proud;
when they are only shy。 Shyness is characteristic of most people
of Teutonic race。 It has been styled 〃the English mania;〃 but it
pervades; to a greater or less degree; all the Northern nations。
The ordinary Englishman; when he travels abroad; carries his
shyness with him。 He is stiff; awkward; ungraceful;
undemonstrative; and apparently unsympathetic; and though he may
assume a brusqueness of manner; the shyness is there; and cannot
be wholly concealed。 The naturally graceful and intensely social
French cannot understand such a character; and the Englishman is
their standing jokethe subject of their most ludicrous
caricatures。 George Sand attributes the rigidity of the natives
of Albion to a stock of FLUIDE BRITANNIQUE which they carry about
with them; that renders them impassive under all circumstances;
and 〃as impervious to the atmosphere of the regions they traverse
as a mouse in the centre of an exhausted receiver。〃 (4)
The average Frenchman or Irishman excels the average Englishman;
German; or American in courtesy and ease of manner; simply because
it is his nature。 They are more social and less self…dependent
than men of Teutonic origin; more demonstrative and less reticent;
they are more communicative; conversational; and freer in their
intercourse with each other in all respects; whilst men of German
race are comparatively stiff; reserved; shy; and awkward。 At the
same time; a people may exhibit ease; gaiety; and sprightliness of
character; and yet possess no deeper qualities calculated to
inspire respect。 They may have every grace of manner; and yet be
heartless; frivolous; selfish。 The character may be on the
surface only; and without any solid qualities for a foundation。
There can be no doubt as to which of the two sorts of peoplethe
easy and graceful; or the stiff and awkwardit is most agreeable
to meet; either in business; in society; or in the casual
intercourse of life。 Which make the fastest friends; the truest
men of their word; the most conscientious performers of their
duty; is an entirely different matter。
The dry GAUCHE Englishmanto use the French phrase; L'ANGLAIS
EMPETREis certainly a somewhat disagreeable person to meet at
first。 He looks as if