letters to his son, 1749-第26章
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ur style； and with many； I dare say； who speak as ill as yourself； and； it may be； worse； you must； therefore； take the more pains； and consult your authors and Mr。 Harte the more。 I need not tell you how attentive the Romans and Greeks； particularly the Athenians； were to this object。 It is also a study among the Italians and the French； witness their respective academies and dictionaries for improving and fixing their languages。 To our shame be it spoken； it is less attended to here than in any polite country； but that is no reason why you should not attend to it； on the contrary； it will distinguish you the more。 Cicero says； very truly； that it is glorious to excel other men in that very article； in which men excel brutes； SPEECH。
Constant experience has shown me； that great purity and elegance of style； with a graceful elocution； cover a multitude of faults； in either a speaker or a writer。 For my own part； I confess （and I believe most people are of my mind） that if a speaker should ungracefully mutter or stammer out to me the sense of an angel； deformed by barbarism and solecisms； or larded with vulgarisms； he should never speak to me a second time； if I could help it。 Gain the heart； or you gain nothing； the eyes and the ears are the only roads to the heart。 Merit and knowledge will not gain hearts； though they will secure them when gained。 Pray； have that truth ever in your mind。 Engage the eyes by your address； air； and motions； soothe the ears by the elegance and harmony of your diction； the heart will certainly follow； and the whole man； or woman； will as certainly follow the heart。 I must repeat it to you； over and over again； that with all the knowledge which you may have at present； or hereafter acquire； and with all merit that ever man had； if you have not a graceful address； liberal and engaging manners； a prepossessing air； and a good degree of eloquence in speaking and writing； you will be nobody； but will have the daily mortification of seeing people； with not one…tenth part of your merit or knowledge； get the start of you； and disgrace you； both in company and in business。
You have read 〃Quintilian；〃 the best book in the world to form an orator； pray read 'Cicero de Oratore'； the best book in the world to finish one。 Translate and retranslate from and to Latin； Greek； and English； make yourself a pure and elegant English style： it requires nothing but application。 I do not find that God has made you a poet； and I am very glad that he has not： therefore； for God's sake； make yourself an orator； which you may do。 Though I still call you boy； I consider you no longer as such； and when I reflect upon the prodigious quantity of manure that has been laid upon you； I expect that you should produce more at eighteen； than uncultivated soils do at eight…and…twenty。
Pray tell Mr。 Harte that I have received his letter of the 13th； N。 S。 Mr。 Smith was much in the right not to let you go； at this time of the year； by sea； in the summer you may navigate as much as you please； as； for example； from Leghorn to Genoa； etc。 Adieu。
LETTER XCII
LONDON； November 27； O。 S。 1749。
DEAR BOY： While the Roman Republic flourished； while glory was pursued； and virtue practiced； and while even little irregularities and indecencies； not cognizable by law； were； however； not thought below the public care； censors were established； discretionally to supply； in particular cases； the inevitable defects of the law； which must and can only be general。 This employment I assume to myself with regard to your little republic； leaving the legislative power entirely to Mr。 Harte； I hope； and believe； that he will seldom； or rather never； have occasion to exert his supreme authority； and I do by no means suspect you of any faults that may require that interposition。 But； to tell you the plain truth； I am of opinion that my censorial power will not be useless to you； nor a sinecure to me。 The sooner you make it both； the better for us both。 I can now exercise this employment only upon hearsay； or； at most； written evidence； and therefore shall exercise it with great lenity and some diffidence； but when we meet； and that I can form my judgment upon ocular and auricular evidence； I shall no more let the least impropriety； indecorum； or irregularity pass uncensured； than my predecessor Cato did。 I shall read you with the attention of a critic； not with the partiality of an author： different in this respect； indeed； from most critics； that I shall seek for faults only to correct and not to expose them。 I have often thought； and still think； that there are few things which people in general know less； than how to love and how to hate。 They hurt those they love by a mistaken indulgence； by a blindness； nay； often by a partiality to their faults。 Where they hate they hurt themselves； by ill…timed passion and rage。 Fortunately for you； I never loved you in that mistaken manner。 From your infancy； I made you the object of my most serious attention； and not my plaything。 I consulted your real good； not your humors or fancies； and I shall continue to do so while you want it； which will probably be the case during our joint lives； for； considering the difference of our ages； in the course of nature； you will hardly have acquired experience enough of your own； while I shall be in condition of lending you any of mine。 People in general will much better bear being； told of their vices or crimes； than of their little failings and weaknesses。 They； in some degree； justify or excuse （as they think） the former； by strong passions； seductions； and artifices of others； but to be told of； or to confess； their little failings and weaknesses； implies an inferiority of parts； too mortifying to that self…love and vanity； which are inseparable from our natures。 I have been intimate enough with several people to tell them that they had said or done a very criminal thing； but I never was intimate enough with any man； to tell him； very seriously； that he had said or done a very foolish one。 Nothing less than the relation between you and me can possibly authorize that freedom； but fortunately for you； my parental rights； joined to my censorial powers； give it me in its fullest extent； and my concern for you will make me exert it。 Rejoice； therefore； that there is one person in the world who can and will tell you what will be very useful to you to know； and yet what no other man living could or would tell you。 Whatever I shall tell you of this kind； you are very sure； can have no other motive than your interest； I can neither be jealous nor envious of your reputation or fortune； which I must be both desirous and proud to establish and promote； I cannot be your rival either in love or in business； on the contrary； I want the rays of your rising to reflect new lustre upon my setting light。 In order to this； I shall analyze you minutely； and censure you freely； that you may not （if possible） have one single spot； when in your meridian。
There is nothing that a young fellow； at his first appearance in the world； has more reason to dread；； and consequently should take more pains to avoid； than having any ridicule fixed upon him。 It degrades him with the most reasonable part of mankind； but it ruins him with the rest； and I have known many a man undone by acquiring a ridiculous nickname： I would not； for all the riches in the world； that you should acquire one when you return to England。 Vices and crimes excite hatred and reproach； failings； weaknesses； and awkwardnesses； excite ridicule； they are laid hold of by mimics； who； though very contemptible wretches themselves； often； by their buffoonery； fix ridicule upon their betters。 The little defects in manners； elocution； address； and air （and even of figure； though very unjustly）； are the objects of ridicule； and the causes of nicknames。 You cannot imagine the grief it would give me； and the prejudice it would do you； if； by way of distinguishing you from others of your name； you should happen to be called Muttering Stanhope； Absent Stanhope； Ill…bred Stanhope； or Awkward； Left…legged Stanhope： therefore； take great care to put it out of the power of Ridicule itself to give you any of the
