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  Soc。 By Here; a fair resting…place; full of summer sounds and



scents。 Here is this lofty and spreading plane…tree; and the agnus



cast us high and clustering; in the fullest blossom and the greatest



fragrance; and the stream which flows beneath the plane…tree is



deliciously cold to the feet。 Judging from the ornaments and images;



this must be a spot sacred to Achelous and the Nymphs。 How



delightful is the breeze:…so very sweet; and there is a sound in the



air shrill and summerlike which makes answer to the chorus of the



cicadae。 But the greatest charm of all is the grass; like a pillow



gently sloping to the head。 My dear Phaedrus; you have been an



admirable guide。



  Phaedr。 What an incomprehensible being you are; Socrates: when you



are in the country; as you say; you really are like some stranger



who is led about by a guide。 Do you ever cross the border? I rather



think that you never venture even outside the gates。



  Soc。 Very true; my good friend; and I hope that you will excuse me



when you hear the reason; which is; that I am a lover of knowledge;



and the men who dwell in the city are my teachers; and not the trees



or the country。 Though I do indeed believe that you have found a spell



with which to draw me out of the city into the country; like a



hungry cow before whom a bough or a bunch of fruit is waved。 For



only hold up before me in like manner a book; and you may lead me



all round Attica; and over the wide world。 And now having arrived; I



intend to lie down; and do you choose any posture in which you can



read best。 Begin。



  Phaedr。 Listen。 You know how matters stand with me; and how; as I



conceive; this affair may be arranged for the advantage of both of us。



And I maintain that I ought not to fail in my suit; because I am not



your lover: for lovers repent of the kindnesses which they have



shown when their passion ceases; but to the non…lovers who are free



and not under any compulsion; no time of repentance ever comes; for



they confer their benefits according to the measure of their



ability; in the way which is most conducive to their own interest。



Then again; lovers consider how by reason of their love they have



neglected their own concerns and rendered service to others: and



when to these benefits conferred they add on the troubles which they



have endured; they think that they have long ago made to the beloved a



very ample return。 But the non…lover has no such tormenting



recollections; he has never neglected his affairs or quarrelled with



his relations; he has no troubles to add up or excuse to invent; and



being well rid of all these evils; why should he not freely do what



will gratify the beloved?



  If you say that the lover is more to be esteemed; because his love



is thought to be greater; for he is willing to say and do what is



hateful to other men; in order to please his beloved;…that; if true;



is only a proof that he will prefer any future love to his present;



and will injure his old love at the pleasure of the new。 And how; in a



matter of such infinite importance; can a man be right in trusting



himself to one who is afflicted with a malady which no experienced



person would attempt to cure; for the patient himself admits that he



is not in his right mind; and acknowledges that he is wrong in his



mind; but says that he is unable to control himself? And if he came to



his right mind; would he ever imagine that the desires were good which



he conceived when in his wrong mind? Once more; there are many more



non…lovers than lovers; and if you choose the best of the lovers;



you will not have many to choose from; but if from the non…lovers; the



choice will be larger; and you will be far more likely to find among



them a person who is worthy of your friendship。 If public opinion be



your dread; and you would avoid reproach; in all probability the



lover; who is always thinking that other men are as emulous of him



as he is of them; will boast to some one of his successes; and make



a show of them openly in the pride of his heart;…he wants others to



know that his labour has not been lost; but the non…lover is more



his own master; and is desirous of solid good; and not of the



opinion of mankind。 Again; the lover may be generally noted or seen



following the beloved (this is his regular occupation); and whenever



they are observed to exchange two words they are supposed to meet



about some affair of love either past or in contemplation; but when



non…lovers meet; no one asks the reason why; because people know



that talking to another is natural; whether friendship or mere



pleasure be the motive。



  Once more; if you fear the fickleness of friendship; consider that



in any other case a quarrel might be a mutual calamity; but now;



when you have given up what is most precious to you; you will be the



greater loser; and therefore; you will have more reason in being



afraid of the lover; for his vexations are many; and he is always



fancying that every one is leagued against him。 Wherefore also he



debars his beloved from society; he will not have you intimate with



the wealthy; lest they should exceed him in wealth; or with men of



education; lest they should be his superiors in understanding; and



he is equally afraid of anybody's influence who has any other



advantage over himself。 If he can persuade you to break with them; you



are left without friend in the world; or if; out of a regard to your



own interest; you have more sense than to comply with his desire;



you will have to quarrel with him。 But those who are non…lovers; and



whose success in love is the reward of their merit; will not be



jealous of the companions of their beloved; and will rather hate those



who refuse to be his associates; thinking that their favourite is



slighted by the latter and benefited by the former; for more love than



hatred may be expected to come to him out of his friendship with



others。 Many lovers too have loved the person of a youth before they



knew his character or his belongings; so that when their passion has



passed away; there is no knowing whether they will continue to be



his friends; whereas; in the case of non…lovers who were always



friends; the friendship is not lessened by the favours granted; but



the recollection of these remains with them; and is an earnest of good



things to come。



  Further; I say that you are likely to be improved by me; whereas the



lover will spoil you。 For they praise your words and actions in a



wrong way; partly; because they are afraid of offending you; and also;



their judgment is weakened by passion。 Such are the feats which love



exhibits; he makes things painful to the disappointed which give no



pain to others; he compels the successful lover to praise what ought



not to give him pleasure; and therefore the beloved is to be pitied



rather than envied。 But if you listen to me; in the first place; I; in



my intercourse with you; shall not merely regard present enjoyment;



but also future advantage; being not mastered by love; but my own



master; nor for small causes taking violent dislikes; but even when



the cause is great; slowly laying up little wrath…unintentional



offences I shall forgive; and intentional ones I shall try to prevent;



and these are the marks of a friendship which will last。



  Do you think that a lover only can be a firm friend? reflect:…if



this were true; we should set small value on sons; or fathers; or



mothers; nor should we ever have loyal friends; for our love of them



arises not from passion; but from other associations。 Further; if we

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