letters to his son, 1748-第14章
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the events of war； in sieges； make many of the terms； of that science occur frequently in common conversation； and one would be sorry to say； like the Marquis de Mascarille in Moliere's 'Precieuses Ridicules'； when he hears of 'une demie lune； Ma foi！ c'etoit bien une lune toute entiere'。 But those things which every； gentleman； independently of profession； should know； he ought to know well； and dive into all the depth of them。 Such are languages； history； and geography ancient and modern； philosophy； rational logic； rhetoric； and； for you particularly； the constitutions and the civil and military state of every country in Europe： This； I confess； is a pretty large circle of knowledge； attended with some difficulties； and requiring some trouble； which； however； an active and industrious mind will overcome； and be amply repaid。 The trifling and frivolous mind is always busied； but to little purpose； it takes little objects for great ones； and throws away upon trifles that time and attention which only important things deserve。 Knick…knacks； butterflies； shells； insects； etc。； are the subjects of their most serious researches。 They contemplate the dress； not the characters of the company they keep。 They attend more to the decorations of a play than the sense of it； and to the ceremonies of a court more than to its politics。 Such an employment of time is an absolute loss of it。 You have now； at most； three years to employ either well or ill； for； as I have often told you； you will be all your life what you shall be three years hence。 For God's sake then reflect。 Will you throw this time away either in laziness； or in trifles？ Or will you not rather employ every moment of it in a manner that must so soon reward you with so much pleasure； figure； and character？ I cannot； I will not doubt of your choice。 Read only useful books； and never quit a subject till you are thoroughly master of it； but read and inquire on till then。 When you are in company； bring the conversation to some useful subject； but 'a portee' of that company。 Points of history； matters of literature； the customs of particular countries； the several orders of knighthood； as Teutonic； Maltese； etc。； are surely better subjects of conversation； than the weather； dress； or fiddle…faddle stories； that carry no information along with them。 The characters of kings and great men are only to be learned in conversation； for they are never fairly written during their lives。 This； therefore； is an entertaining and instructive subject of conversation； and will likewise give you an opportunity of observing how very differently characters are given； from the different passions and views of those who give them。 Never be ashamed nor afraid of asking questions： for if they lead to information； and if you accompany them with some excuse； you will never be reckoned an impertinent or rude questioner。 All those things； in the common course of life； depend entirely upon the manner； and； in that respect； the vulgar saying is true； 'That one man can better steal a horse； than another look over the hedge。' There are few things that may not be said； in some manner or other； either in a seeming confidence； or a genteel irony； or introduced with wit； and one great part of the knowledge of the world consists in knowing when and where to make use of these different manners。 The graces of the person； the countenance； and the way of speaking； contribute so much to this； that I am convinced； the very same thing； said by a genteel person in an engaging way； and GRACEFULLY and distinctly spoken； would please； which would shock； if MUTTERED out by an awkward figure； with a sullen； serious countenance。 The poets always represent Venus as attended by the three Graces； to intimate that even beauty will not do without： I think they should have given Minerva three also； for without them； I am sure learning is very unattractive。 Invoke them； then； DISTINCTLY； to accompany all your words and motions。 Adieu。
P。 S。 Since I wrote what goes before； I have received your letter； OF NO DATE； with the inclosed state of the Prussian forces： of which； I hope； you have kept a copy； this you should lay in a 'portefeuille'； and add to it all the military establishments that you can get of other states and kingdoms： the Saxon establishment you may； doubtless； easily find。 By the way； do not forget to send me answers to the questions which I sent you some time ago； concerning both the civil and the ecclesiastical affairs of Saxony。
Do not mistake me； and think I only mean that you should speak elegantly with regard to style； and the purity of language； but I mean； that you should deliver and pronounce what you say gracefully and distinctly； for which purpose I will have you frequently read very loud； to Mr。 Harte； recite parts of orations； and speak passages of plays； for； without a graceful and pleasing enunciation； all your elegancy of style； in speaking； is not worth one farthing。
I am very glad that Mr。 Lyttelton approves of my new house； and particularly of my CANONICAL＇James Brydges； duke of Chandos； built a most magnificent and elegant house at CANNONS； about eight miles from London。 It was superbly furnished with fine pictures； statues； etc。； which； after his death； were sold； by auction。 Lord Chesterfield purchased the hall…pillars； the floor； and staircase with double flig1hts； which are now m Chesterfield House； London。＇pillars。 My bust of Cicero is a very fine one； and well preserved； it will have the best place in my library； unless at your return you bring me over as good a modern head of your own； which I should like still better。 I can tell you； that I shall examine it as attentively as ever antiquary did an old one。
Make my compliments to Mr。 Harte； at whose recovery I rejoice。
LETTER XLVI
LONDON； August 2； O。 S。 1748。
DEAR BOY： Duval the jeweler； is arrived； and was with me three or four days ago。 You will easily imagine that I asked him a few questions concerning you； and I will give you the satisfaction of knowing that； upon the whole； I was very well pleased with the account he gave me。 But； though he seemed to be much in your interest； yet he fairly owned to me that your utterance was rapid； thick； and ungraceful。 I can add nothing to what I have already said upon this subject； but I can and do repeat the absolute necessity of speaking distinctly and gracefully； or else of not speaking at all； and having recourse to signs。 He tells me that you are pretty fat for one of your age： this you should attend to in a proper way； for if； while very young； you should grow fat； it would be troublesome； unwholesome； and ungraceful； you should therefore； when you have time； take very strong exercise； and in your diet avoid fattening things。 All malt liquors fatten； or at least bloat； and I hope you do not deal much in them。 I look upon wine and water to be； in every respect； much wholesomer。
Duval says there is a great deal of very good company at Madame Valentin's and at another lady's； I think one Madame Ponce's； at Leipsig。 Do you ever go to either of those houses； at leisure times？ It would not； in my mind； be amiss if you did； and would give you a habit of ATTENTIONS； they are a tribute which all women expect； and which all men； who would be well received by them； must pay。 And； whatever the mind may be； manners at least are certainly improved by the company of women of fashion。
I have formerly told you； that you should inform yourself of the several orders； whether military or religious； of the respective countries where you may be。 The Teutonic Order is the great Order of Germany； of which I send you inclosed a short account。 It may serve to suggest questions to you for more particular inquiries as to the present state of it； of which you ought to be minutely informed。 The knights； at present； make vows； of which they observe none； except it be that of not marrying； and their only object now is； to arrive； by seniority； at the Commanderies in their respective provinces； which are； many of them； very lucrative。 The Order of Malta is； by a very few years； prior to the Teutonic； and owes its foundation to the same causes。 These' knights were fir
