高等意识手册-第44章

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the　world　in　which　you　live　　when　heaven　is　there　all　the　time！　The　words
and　actions　of　people　are　sent　by　your　various　senses　into　the　analytical　and
interpretive　sections　of　your　bioputer。　When　outside　patterns　do　not　fit
your　inner　programmed　patterns；　you　respond　with　negative　emotional
feelings　such　as　anger；　fear；　jealousy；　resentment；　etc。；　and　create　your
experience　of　unhappiness　（see　right…hand　box　and　bottom　box　in　Diagram　1）。
This　leads　you　to　the　fourth　phase　of　the　Wheel　of　Unhappiness。　You　then
begin　to　criticize　and　reject　yourself　and　others。　You　municate　with
words；　vocal　tones；　facial　expressions；　and　body　gestures　that　either　you　are
rotten　or　the　world　is　rotten；　or　perhaps　both。　Your　rational　mind　criticizes
other　people　and　finds　fault　with　them。　It　gives　you　reasons　why　they　are
“fools；”　“idiots；”　“uncaring　monsters；”　“evil　beings；”　or　whatever。　Or　you
may　use　programming　that　turns　your　rational　mind　against　yourself　and
creates　the　experience　that　you　are　inadequate；　hopeless；　inept；　dumb；
inferior；　crazy；　or　whatever。
This　alienating　subject…object　feedback　then　begins　to　change　the　behavior　of
people　and　the　characteristics　of　the　life　conditions　around　you　（we’re　back　to
the　top　box　in　Diagram　1）。　In　other　words；　your　negative　feedback　begins　to
make　a　dramatic　change　in　the　response　of　the　people　and　conditions　around
you。　You　thus　create　an　environment　of　antagonistic　people　and　situations。
Now　the　Wheel　of　Unhappiness　begins　to　turn　and　the　people　around　you
begin　to　respond　with　words　and　actions　that　reflect　their　negative　feelings　to
your　criticism　and　rejection。　Then　this　feeds　back　into　your　emotional
programming　and　triggers　more　anger；　fear；　jealousy；　or　up…tight　emotions。
And　you　react　by　criticizing　yourself　more　and　criticizing　others　more。　（See
Diagram　1）。　This　feeds　back　into　the　people　and　situations　around　you　and
turns　them　against　you　even　more。　。。。　And　things　bee　even　worse　in　your
life　as　the　cycle　turns　and　turns　and　turns　in　a　downward　spiral。　Your　rational
mind　may　accept　this　downward　spiral　as　proof　that　your　life　is　impossible；
that　people　are　horrible；　and　that　there　is　no　way　of　“making　it”　in　life。
A　human　being　trapped　in　the　Wheel　of　Unhappiness　does　not　realize　that　the
world　is　not　“doing　it”　to　him。　The　defenses　of　ego　（aided　and　abetted　by　the
rational　mind）　make　it　extremely　difficult　for　him　to　realize　that　he　is　doing　it
to　himself。　He　can　prove　that　people　are　really　treating　him　that　way。　And
they　are；　of　course。　What　he　doesn’t　see　is　that　his　continuous　criticism　and
rejection　of　the　outside　life　energies　have　conditioned　people　to　respond　to
him　in　that　way。　The　same　people　could　have　responded　in　an　entirely
different　way。　At　any　time；　they　could　have　been　loving　and　supporting；　and
the　Wheel　of　Happiness　could　have　been　set　in　motion。
A　person　trapped　in　the　Wheel　of　Unhappiness　will　spend　almost　all　of　his　or
her　energy　trying　hopelessly　to　manipulate　the　people　and　situations　to　fit　his
or　her　programming。　Although　this　was　one　of　the　few　responses　available　at
age　two；　it　is　by　no　means　the　most　effective　response　available　to　a　human
adult　that　has　the　potential　for　higher　consciousness。　A　higher　consciousness
being　realizes　that　the　people　and　things　in　his　or　her　life　are　only　minimally
changeable　by　a　consciousness　that　creates　the　experiences　of　life　through　the
three　lower　Centers。　After　all；　you　don’t　want　people　trying　to　force　you　to
change。　And；　whenever　you　perceive　attempts　to　dominate　you　or　control
you；　you　develop　a　great　resistance。　The　more　they　try　to　change　you；　the
more　you　try　to　go　the　other　way。　A　higher　consciousness　being　realizes　that
there　is　only　one　way　to　genuinely　change　the　words　and　actions　of　people　to
fit　his　inner　programmed　preferences　without　turning　the　Wheel　of
Unhappiness　　and　that　is　through　loving　munication　from　a
consciousness　that　is　not　emotionally　upset。
When　you　are　trapped　in　the　Wheel　of　Unhappiness；　you　have　no　conception
that　you　are　futilely　directing　your　energies　in　the　useless　attempt　to　use
conniving　and　emotional　pressure　to　change　the　words　and　actions　of　people
around　you。　And　so；　unlike　the　rat　who　adapts　to　the　fact　that　the　cheese　is
no　longer　located　in　the　third　tunnel；　you　keep　yourself　trapped　by　trying　to
manipulate　and　change　the　people　and　things　in　your　life。　The　problems　you
had　at　age　two　are　gone　　yet　you　are　unconsciously　playing　out　the　methods
you　used　back　then。　These　obsolete　solutions　deprive　you　of　the　opportunity
to　fully　experience　and　enjoy　your　life。
When　you　apply　a　heavy　enough　power　trip；　you　may　make　certain　changes
in　the　life　energies　around　you。　But　if　you　were　conscious　of　the　enormous
separation　and　alienation　that　your　criticism　and　manipulation　creates　with　the
people　around　you；　you　would　realize　that　you　cannot　afford　the　price　in　lost
happiness　that　you　pay　for　the　precious　few　changes　you　may　force　on　the
surface。　The　only　changes　that　you　can　make；　without　paying　a　large　penalty；
are　those　changes　that　gently　and　easily　happen　when　you　make　a　loving
munication。　When　that　won’t　do　it；　you　should　work　on　releasing
yourself　from　your　inner　addictions　and　emotion…backed　demands　that　are
controlling　or　dominating　your　consciousness。
How　do　you　stop　the　downward　spiraling　of　the　Wheel　of　Unhappiness　and
start　converting　it　into　an　upward　Spiral　of　Happiness？　You　need　to　redirect
your　energy　from　trying　to　change　the　outer　life　energies；　to　changing　your
inner　programming　（see　Diagram　2）。　There　are　no　methods　available　that　will
enable　you　to　successfully　change　all　of　the　outer　life　energies　around　you　to
fit　your　inner　emotional　programming。　You　could　have　the　power　of　a　king；
the　prestige　of　a　movie　star；　or　the　knowledge　of　a　Ph。D。；　but　the　condition　of
your　life　would　still　remain　the　same　　you　win　some　and　you　lose　some。　By
using　the　Five　Methods　of　Living　Love；　you　have　the　capacity　to　change　your
own　inner　programming。　There　is　a　huge　supply　of　cheese　waiting　for　you；
but　you　can　only　get　to　it　by　working　on　your　own　inner　programming　so　that；
here　and　now；　you　can　emotionally　accept　the　people　and　situations　in　your
life。
When　you　work　on　your　inner　adaptation；　by　reprogramming　the　emotionbacked
demands　you　place　on　people　and　situations　in　your　life；　you　will　find
that　the　life　situations　and　energies　that　used　to　create　unhappiness　will　be
neutral　or　positive　in　their　effect　on　your　happiness。　Your　energy；
perceptiveness；　and　ability　to　love　unconditionally　will　make　you　invulnerable
to　suffering。　And　so　the　third　phase　of　Diagram　2　shows　that　you　begin　to
feed　back　a　loving　acceptance　of　the　people　and　situations　around　you。
Just　as　your　criticism　strongly　affects　the　life　energies　around　you；　your
positive　feedback　can　begin　to　powerfully　affect　the　life　energies　around　you。
The　more　you　lovingly　accept　people　in　your　life；　without　conditions；　the
more　you　free　them　to　enjoy　being　around　you。　Their　egos　and　rational　minds
do　not　have　to　stay　in　a　paranoid　or　defensive　place；　and　when　they　are　with
you　they　can　begin　to　experience　themselves　free　of　security；　sensation；　and
power　addictions　that　you　formerly　reflected　or　set　off　in　them。　This　frees
their　energy　to　experience　themselves　and　you　without　a　“tunnel　vision”
effect。　They　begin　to　feel　free　and　liberated　around　you。　They　develop　a
deep　trust　that　you　will　remain　tuned…in；　centered；　and　loving　no　matter　what
they　do。　They　can　just　relax　and　enjoy；　and　begin　to　groove　in　a　loving；
mutually　supportive　space　with　you。
Instead　of　negatively　affecting　the　life　energies　around　you；　so　as　to　put
people　even　more　out　of　phase　with　your　programming　（as　in　Diagram　1）；
people　may　now　begin　to　change　their　feelings　in　ways　that　begin　to　fit　your
Preferential　Programming。　And　if　they　don’t　change；　it　doesn’t　matter　
because　it　was　only　a　“preference”　anyway。　Since　you　are　largely　free　from
Addictive　Programming；　they　don’t　have　to　walk　around　like　they’re　tiptoeing
on　eggs　all　the　time。　They　can　just　relax　and　flow　with　their　own　inner
vibrations　and　energies　for　they　know