高等意识手册-第35章

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with　a　child　represents　your　addictions　　not　his。　When　your　addictive
programming　makes　you　upset；　you　will　respond　to　a　child　in　a　way　that　helps
to　program　addictions　into　his　bioputer。　When　you　respond　to　every
here…and…now　situation　in　a　loving；　conscious　way；　you　will　be　able　to　do
exactly　what　needs　to　be　done。　The　Ninth　Pathway　is　very　helpful；　“I　act
freely　when　I　am　tuned　in；　centered；　and　loving；　but　if　possible　I　avoid　acting
when　I　am　emotionally　upset　and　depriving　myself　of　the　wisdom　that　flows
from　love　and　expanded　consciousness。”
Although　you　will　find　all　of　the　Pathways　useful　when　living　with　children；
the　Twelfth　Pathway　should　be　particularly　uppermost　in　your　consciousness：
“I　am　perceiving　everyone；　including　myself；　as　an　awakening　being　who　is
here　to　claim　his　or　her　birthright　to　the　higher　consciousness　planes　of
unconditional　love　and　oneness。”　How　do　you　treat　an　awakening　being？　Do
you　criticize　him；　belittle　him；　evaluate　him；　bribe　him；　get　angry　with　him；　try
to　manipulate　him？　Or　do　you　just　love　him　and　serve　him？　If　he　asks　you　to
do　something；　you　do　it　if　you　are　able　to。　If　you　cannot　do　it；　you　know　that
he　will　understand。　Children　have　a　deep　understanding　on　intuitive　levels。　If
their　consciousness　has　not　been　muddied　with　power　games；　children　are
very　realistic　in　accepting　the　here　and　now　conditions　in　their　lives。
The　Living　Love　Catalyst；　ALL　WAYS　US　LIVING　LOVE；　（See　the　Fourth
Method　in　Chapter　13）　can　be　helpful　in　freeing　your　consciousness　from
security；　sensation；　and　power　addictions　when　interacting　with　children。　You
may　wish　to　start　this　Catalyst　in　your　consciousness　and　keep　it　going　for
many　hours。　You　let　words　and　other　sounds；　visual　impulses；　and　touch
sensations　pour　into　the　background　of　your　consciousness。　When　you　keep
ALL　WAYS　US　LIVING　LOVE　constantly　turning　in　your　mind；　your
vibrations　will　bee　more　peaceful　and　loving。　The　perceptions　which　are
then　placed　into　your　Conscious…awareness　by　your　vast　and　plex
bioputer　will　be　those　which　tune　you　in　to　a　deep　calm　place　within
yourself　and　the　children　around　you。　Since　children　are　such　excellent
mirrors；　anything　you　do　to　uplevel　your　consciousness　will　rapidly　be
reflected　in　an　upleveling　of　the　consciousness　of　the　children　around　you。
Unless　you　are　free　of　the　lower　three　levels　of　consciousness；　from　time　to
time　your　addictive　emotional　programming　will　fill　your　consciousness　with
fear；　anger；　or　resentment。　When　this　happens；　you　use　these　emotional
feelings　as　a　golden　opportunity　to　reprogram　yourself　through　the　Method　of
Consciousness　Focusing。　This　is　the　Fifth　Method　of　growth　in　the　Living
Love　Way　to　Higher　Consciousness。　If　you　constantly　use　the　here…and…now
experience　that　your　life　is　giving　you；　your　interaction　with　children　can
rapidly　accelerate　your　growth　into　higher　consciousness。　You　should　regard
it　as　an　evasion　if　you　tell　yourself　that　you　cannot　grow　into　higher
consciousness　because　you　have　young　children　to　take　care　of　　and　they
are　such　a　distraction。　It　is　likely　that　you　can　grow　into　higher　consciousness
more　rapidly　because　you　do　have　the　benefit　of　interacting　with　children。
Firmness　is　sometimes　necessary　in　order　to　teach　a　child　how　to　live　with
others　and　to　cope　with　the　physical　dangers　of　the　world。　One　mother　might
punish　a　child　from　a　subject…object；　alienated　space　that　will　create
separation。　Another　mother　may　“punish”　a　child　in　the　same　way　but　from　a
Fourth　Center；　loving　space　that　will　bring　them　closer　together。　The　things
that　you　actually　do　in　interacting　with　a　child　are　not　as　important　as　the
Center　of　Consciousness　that　you　are　working　from。　A　person　at　the　Fourth
Center　of　Consciousness　prefers　to　be　receptive　and　accepting；　but　when　life
requires　it；　he　or　she　can　use　firmness　or　force　from　a　loving　space。　Parents
operating　from　the　Fourth　Center　of　Consciousness　will　do　what　needs　to　be
done　in　each　situation　　and　accept　and　love　both　the　child　and　themselves　
seeing　it　all　as　part　of　the　warp　and　woof　of　the　universe。
Always　remember　that　the　experience　of　peace；　love；　and　serenity　are　created
by　the　way　in　which　you　operate　your　bioputer。　The　world　you　perceive
is　based　on　the　automatic　programming　below　conscious　levels　that　selects
everything　that　is　introduced　into　your　consciousness。　As　you　grow　into
higher　consciousness；　your　perceptions　of　what　is　here　and　now　in　your　life
will　be　introduced　into　your　consciousness　without　triggering　emotions　that
lead　your　rational　mind　to　churn　away　with　security；　sensation；　and　power
stuff。　When　a　panoramic　perception　of　the　here　and　now　is　introduced　into
your　consciousness　within　a　framework　of　openness　and　love；　you　live　in　a
deep；　calm　place　within　your　heart。　You　will　perceive　the　drama　going　on
outside　of　you。　You　will　effectively　do　what　you　need　to　do。　and　you　will
enjoy　as　drama　all　of　the　“ugly”　things　and　the　“beautiful”　things　that　are
being　acted　out　on　the　stage　that　passes　before　your　eyes　each　day。　The　joy
and　ecstasy　of　life　is　yours　as　you　bee　one　with　the　Law　of　Higher
Consciousness　　Love　everyone　unconditionally　　including　yourself。
Chapter　21
How　To　Increase　Your　Enjoyment　of　Sex
Sex；　as　well　as　the　rest　of　the　drama　in　your　life；　may　be　experienced　at　any
level　of　consciousness。　It　may　be　done　on　the　security　level　（as　in　the　case　of
a　turned…off　wife　who　lets　it　happen　to　keep　her　marriage　together）；　or　the
sensation　level　（as　with　a　playboy）；　or　on　the　power　level　（such　as　a　man　who
challenges　himself　to　make　it　with　a　difficult…to…get　partner）。　Sex　is
experienced　on　the　love　level　of　consciousness　（when　you　use　the　experience
to　flow　more　lovingly　and　acceptingly）；　or　on　the　Cornucopia　level　（when　one
finds　in　the　experience　of　sex　a　deeper　awareness　of　the　way　in　which　life
offers　us　everything　we　need）。　On　the　sixth　level　of　consciousness　one
watches　the　drama　of　the　physical　union　from　a　deep　calm　place　within　one’s
heart。　On　the　seventh　level　of　consciousness；　one　bees　the　sexual
experience。　It　is　not　perceived　as　something　that　is　happening　to　oneself。
Instead；　one　feels　an　identity　with　everything　and　everyone。　On　this　level；
you　would　not　experience　sex　as　a　happening　　you　are　the　happening。　。　。　。
Unless　you　are　well　on　your　way　on　the　journey　to　higher　consciousness；　you
are　probably　now　experiencing　sex　largely　on　the　second　level　of
consciousness。　You　engage　in　sex　with　your　partner　for　your　mutual
enjoyment。　Your　consciousness　during　sex　is　concerned　with　the　sensations
that　you　have　during　the　time　you　are　making　love　　and　especially　during　the
moments　of　orgasm。　The　consciousness　of　your　partner　similarly　will　be
focused　on　the　delightful　sensations。　Although　there　is　cooperation　and
agreement　between　you　regarding　what　is　happening；　each　of　you　is　using　the
other　as　an　object　with　which　to　gratify　a　desire　for　sexual　feelings。　There　is
thus　a　subject…object　separateness　that　deprives　you　of　the　more　beautiful
feelings　that　await　you　when　sex　is　experienced　from　higher　levels　of
consciousness。
Sex　at　the　second　level　of　consciousness　leaves　you　vulnerable　in　many　ways。
You　may　pare　tonight’s　experience　with　the　high　feelings　of　a　previous
night；　and　this　parison　may　lead　you　to　feel　that　what　happened　tonight
was　not　quite　“enough。”　You　are　vulnerable　to　disappointment　if　your　partner
is　tired　or　for　some　reason　is　not　interested。　If　the　experience　is　particularly
great；　your　consciousness　will　begin　to　wonder　how　soon　you　can　repeat　it　
or　whether　you　can　repeat　it　at　all。
This　grasping；　manipulative　focus　of　consciousness　keeps　you　from　being
pletely　satisfied　here　and　now。　It　keeps　you　on　a　roller…coaster　of
pleasure　and　disappointment。　Our　habit　of　anticipating　the　future　rather　than
letting　ourselves　pletely　experience　the　here…and…now　enjoyment　of　life
can　enormously　detract　from　the　experience　of　sex。　For　example；　a　man　may
spend　an　evening　dining　and　talking　with　a　woman　with　a　large　proportion　of
his　consciousness　involved　in　his　anticipation　of　going　to　bed　with　her　later
that　night。　He　is　bodily　with　her；　but　a　la